SlowCards by slowtico

A separate app for adults18+

The Two of Us at Night

One deck, one conversation between two people. Unhurried questions about closeness, tenderness and desire — at a pace that is yours.

Written for adults, and written with tact. The app opens once you confirm you are an adult, and it has no card of the day and no garden — it is there for a conversation between two.

Six paths The senses · Desire · Consent and boundaries · The body and tenderness · Imagination · Afterwards

The app is in the making

Google Play — soon App Store — soon

The Two of Us at Night SlowCards
Extra deck · 18+
Deck back — 120 cards

How it works

On closeness, tenderness and desire — at a pace that is yours.

  • Fourteen cards to try

    Without buying anything you open two cards a day, fourteen in all. It is a fixed set, the same for everyone.

  • Then the whole deck

    The full deck is 120 questions along six paths. You buy it once, in the store, and it stays with you.

  • “The Two of Us” as well

    In the same app you can also buy “The Two of Us” — 120 questions that bring you closer, with nothing of the night about them.

  • One SlowCards account

    A deck bought here opens in SlowCards once you sign in, and the other way round. One account, both apps.

Try it: draw a demo card

This is what “The Two of Us at Night” looks like. Tap the deck, turn the card over, change its language. Two cards a day, as in the app.

The night deck

Good evening

The Two of Us at Night SlowCards
Extra deck · 18+

Tap the deck to draw a card

In the app it is two cards a day, fourteen in all. Here you can see how it works.

Three decks for one evening

The night deck comes with the application. “Bolder” and “Kink” are there for when you want to go further — and each one can be tried for free first.

  • The Two of Us at Night SlowCards
    Extra deck · 18+
    Deck back

    120 cards

    The Two of Us at Night — 18+

    On closeness, tenderness and desire — at a pace that is yours.

    The gentlest of the three and a good way in: questions about closeness, desire and consent, unhurried and never explicit.

    Six paths The senses · Desire · Consent and boundaries · The body and tenderness · Imagination · Afterwards

    In the app

    Three cards of the demo setTap a card to turn it over. The language of a card is on the card.

    • Which touch tells you more than any words could?

      The first touchSenses

    • How am I to tell what you want and what you do not want yet?

      Yes, no, maybeConsent & boundaries

    • How do you imagine an evening of ours ten years from now?

      Ten years from nowImagination

    You can try it free in the app — 2 cards a day, 14 in all. After that you buy the whole deck.

  • Bolder SlowCards
    Extra deck · 18+
    Deck back

    120 cards

    Bolder

    Sex, straight up — as a question, not an instruction.

    For couples who already have their own language and want to stretch it. The tone is bold and light: “tell me”, not “do this”.

    Six paths Desires · Body & pleasure · Making a move · Fantasies · Bold talk · Afterwards

    A deck to add

    Two cards of the demo setTap a card to turn it over. The language of a card is on the card.

    • What do you need in the first minutes after, so the world does not come back too fast?

      The first minutes afterAfterwards

    • Which words about your body do you want to hear from me, and which not?

      Words for the bodyBold talk

    You can try it free in the app — 2 cards a day, 14 in all. After that you buy the whole deck.

  • Kink SlowCards
    Extra deck · 18+
    Deck back

    180 cards

    Kink

    On power, the senses and trust — with knowledge that changes the conversation.

    The largest deck of this application and the only one with a teaching part. The paths “Talking & consent” and “Knowledge & safety” are its core.

    Nine paths Curiosity & first steps · Talking & consent · Roles & power · Senses & sensation · Bondage & restraint · Impact · Fetishes & materials · Aftercare · Knowledge & safety

    A deck to add

    Two cards of the demo setTap a card to turn it over. The language of a card is on the card.

    • What word or sign will tell me “amber” when words run out?

      Three lightsTalking & consent

    • Which first step in this direction sounds intriguing rather than scary?

      One small stepCuriosity & first steps

    Every card of Kink has a “Worth knowing” part: two or three sentences on what it is, why people do it and what to watch out for. Turn over the card next to this.

    You can try it free in the app — 2 cards a day, 14 in all. After that you buy the whole deck.

The Two of Us SlowCards
Extra deck

And “The Two of Us”

The SlowCards deck “The Two of Us” can be added inside this application too — 120 questions that bring you closer, without the night thread.

120 cards · A deck to add

Tender, bold, fiery

Three temperatures of a question. You choose them before a draw and change them when the evening changes its mood.

  • Tender

    Questions about closeness, touch and what feels good. Good for a first evening and a tired day.

  • Bold

    More detail and more courage in the words. This is where the talk about wanting more of something begins.

  • Fiery

    The hottest questions of a deck. Off by default — you two switch them on when you want to.

A change of the filter takes effect from the next draw, so it never takes away the card in front of you.

Boundaries the app remembers

A topic the two of you switch off never comes up — not in a draw, not on the table, not in the demo.

  • Your own list of topics

    On the “Boundaries” screen you switch topics on and off, each with a one-line explanation. Switching one off takes effect at once.

  • Skip, no explaining

    Every card has a “Skip” next to it. No question about why, and the card does not come back that evening.

  • A warm-up to start

    A short “how are you two tonight”, the intensity chips and one “anything not today” — then a gentle card to begin with.

  • Sharper topics are off by default

    Some topics wait switched off until you switch them on yourselves. No card surprises anyone with a subject that was never talked about.

The app speaks your language

Names, pronouns and grammar — so a question sounds as if it were asked of you, not of a manual.

  • Names

    A card asks by name: “Ala asks → Alex answers”. Without names it is simply “Person 1” and “Person 2”.

  • Identity and pronouns

    Each person picks their pronouns or writes their own, and the Polish and Spanish grammar of a question follows them.

  • The body apart from gender

    You may mark which parts of the body questions can be about. Without that, questions about the body simply never come up.

  • Whose turn: asking, answering

    A card shows who asks and who answers; on the next one the roles swap. Or you both answer.

The map of desires and the kink test

Two tools for talking. You do them on one phone, and neither puts anyone on display.

  • The map of desires

    Eighty short entries and four answers: yes, maybe, no, not sure what that is. Each of you fills it in separately, and then we uncover only what you both answered “yes” or “maybe” to. Nobody sees anyone’s “no” — no counts, no names.

  • The kink test

    Sixty statements and a map of interests across eight scales — no compatibility score and no labels along the lines of “so that is what you are”. The results can be compared and deleted whenever you like.

It is a snapshot of today’s interests, not a label. In six months it may look different.

It stays with you

Names, pronouns, boundaries, the answers in the map of desires and in the test, and the notes are kept on this phone only.

  • We never send them to a server

    That data does not leave the phone and goes into no statistics. On the server there is only your account and which decks you have bought.

  • No copy in the cloud

    The data of this app is left out of the phone backup — it is neither in the Android copy nor in iCloud. When you change phones you move it yourself, in a file closed with your own password.

  • App lock

    An optional PIN or fingerprint on every entry, screenshots switched off and a discreet icon to choose.

  • One button at the end

    “Delete the data on this phone” clears everything: personalisation, boundaries, results and notes.

The details are in the privacy policy. Privacy policy

What we believe

Sex-positive means four concrete things here.

  • Consent

    A question is an invitation, not a commitment. “No” is a complete answer and needs no explaining.

  • Pleasure

    We talk about pleasure openly and without shame — with taste, never explicit, never a manual.

  • Inclusivity

    Every gender, every orientation and every kind of couple belongs here. No assumptions about who leads.

  • Curiosity without judgement

    No rankings and no “this is what normal couples do”. What counts is what you two want.

Suggested workshops

From a question to an experience

The app suggests Slowtico workshops for couples near you — chosen for your decks and for the subject of the evening. It is a feature, not an advertisement: it stays after every purchase.

See Slowtico workshops

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